*Oscar Wilde
--Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.
Lansky, Bruce--Age Happens--pg 35.
Who doesn't agree *?
Why, life simply is fair! And, neither poor nor rich in character.
So what is good about it being not so?
Ah!
That is because some of us want to look into a well...
of well-being, of welcoming, or of wel-ittivity.
Well, looking inside means one must get uncomfortable
realising that it is not just your own subjectivity that is an object;
It is irrational comparison with what life is for now to what it was and what it could have(not) be(en).
Because...
I am hungry for more, the beans were cooked, but some fell down into the well and the rest were eaten in half-a-sitting.
(life isn't fair because it's just a bunch of has-beens)
** Hawkish wives not with doves
Ha!